Divorce, also known as dissolution of marriage, is the termination of a marriage or marital union, the canceling or reorganizing of the legal duties and responsibilities of marriage, thus dissolving the bonds of matrimony between a married couple under the rule of law of the particular country or state.Divorce laws vary considerably around the world, but in most countries divorce requires the sanction of a court or other authority in a legal process, which may involve issues of alimony (spousal support), child custody, child visitation / access, parenting time, child support, distribution of property, and division of debt.The one great thing that came out of this marriage, the kids, and now they are for all practical purposes, gone.When a couple divorce, it is because the relationship of the couple has essentially died.When my husband and I finally agreed it was time to throw in the towel, I wasn't fooling myself: I knew that for Maggie, then 5, and Evan, then 3, our divorce would be a tragedy. The first three days after Jack moved out, Evan screamed himself awake; Maggie cried herself to sleep.The kids loved Jack; they loved me; they loved our family. Months later, I was bragging to my sister about how well the kids were doing, and she started flipping through a stack of Maggie's drawings.
He may think he can get joint custody, and that will solve it, but she will likely NOT agree to share custody with him..Even when she does not disagree and oppose it, and it is granted, it can be sabotaged and for various other reasons often does not work out.She gave birth to these kids so she has decided these kids are hers and his role now is solely to assist her by providing money.After your parents divorce though, these qualities may take on a whole new meaning – one that is less positive and care free.Maybe your mannerisms remind your mother of your father or vice versa.With each new developmental stage, they have new questions and worries. D., a leading divorce researcher and coauthor of What About the Kids?